Cover Story

Road to Reconciliation

Time does have healing power, but it demands sincere apologies and forgiveness.

By Yasmeen Mozaffar | April 2025


It was a cold, windy evening on December 17, 1971, in Chicago in a southside suburban university hall—the usual den for Pakistani meetings. The hall was packed with East and West Pakistanis with the aura of sorrow, grief, anger, and defeat. News from the homeland had just been received that a part of Pakistan had become Bangladesh, and 90,000 Pakistanis were being taken to India as prisoners of war. Frustration was high among all, with the blame game at its peak. But the harsh reality had to be accepted. We no longer belong to each other. Away from our homeland, we held on to each other for good and for worse. It’s all over. We have been separated by design. Amidst tears, hugs, and goodbyes, the assemblage started to disperse, moving to the new avenues of strangerhood.

Time does have healing power, but it demands sincere apologies and forgiveness. Fifty-three years have gone by, but the monumental scar of separation still exists. All of the horrific details that led to it are still fresh in the memories of both parties. Much of such information is also documented in the Hamoodur Rahman Report. Even President General Musharraf’s 2002 visit to Bangladesh turned out to be a nonfunctional venture due to serious reservations by the Bangladeshi population. The visit was perceived in a context that Pakistan actually turned to Bangladesh to settle its own score with India. India supported East Pakistan when the Pakistani army launched an operation. A huge number of Bengalis fled to India, and the Congress-led Indian government and then Prime Minister Indira Gandhi opened the borders for Bangladeshi refugees. Since then, India has been a dominant ally of Bangladesh.

In the last five decades, Bangladesh has emerged as the most progressive country in South Asia. It is the second largest economy in the region, surpassing Pakistan by 80% with a projected GDP of $481bn and per capita income of $2.770. Bangladesh has become a global industrial powerhouse by developing its human resources strategies. The United States is a major ally with extensive collaboration on regional matters and global security, counterterrorism, and climate change.

Read More